Confirmation Bias Having A TF On The Other Side

It is described as the tendency of people to favor information that confirms or strengthens their beliefs or values, and is difficult to dislodge once affirmed.

I have and continue to provide evidence that says I know who my TF is. But what isn’t written about is how I avoid confirmation bias on this journey. Using the TF ‘signs’ you can easily find on your own, you can see it is literally a list of confirmation biases. Not just a list of conditions for “love” or what qualifies for love!

What most people do when they are desperate, they look for signs, see they coincide with their beliefs and forget it. It’s not only damaging but you enforce your personal bubble refusing anything to burst it. Doing so, when something does INEVITABLY burst your personal bubble, it puts you in a serious funk you may not feel you can crawl yourself out of.

This is why you need to stay objective!

Staying objective, open to possibilities you could be wrong is just as important as looking at what can make you right. You can ask all the intuitives in the world for a “confirmation” but it’s not enough. No one is 100% accurate all the time! So get over that need to pay so much money online to intuitives. It’s best you do your own investigation..look at all of the evidence either “good” or “bad”!

Having doubt means you are strong because it takes strength on this journey to pull through no matter where you end up. Having doubt means you are capable of being honest with yourself knowing you have some things to learn. Going about life as though you don’t need to learn something new isn’t living! You have to break out of that if you want to be free-er!

I have a list of reasons I can be wrong about my journey. It’s taken me 3 or 4 (something like that) years from the beginning of this to learn to be okay with being wrong about everything and yes in some ways I was wrong in some of my communications but it’s not slowed me down. There are also a lot of things I’ve learned and I’m not 100% on board with especially when it comes to my role(s) in The Realms. Those details aren’t important to me so Ive let them sit in the background.

This is your life, your journey. Don’t make it someone else’s job to validate it. They don’t know you, they aren’t you! If you can’t be bothered to see the entire picture, how can the universe help you? You just have to let go and try to be open to all details including the pieces that hurt. It’s the ONLY WAY you will grow as a person.

Make it important to you to look at the big picture!

Having a TF not on this earth is hard. Don’t make your life harder by refusing to look at all the details. They are all important!

😘💕 Good night!

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