I can take a compliment 😌. It doesn’t bother me. They either like or not like. I wear what I want because I want to and I have bigger (pun) problems like actually being able to fit into my cute clothes again. I work out because it’s for me too.
Everything I do is for myself so if people like it, its cool. I hope it inspires them to do the same. Nothing wrong with that. However when men start flirting aggressively, that’s where I have a problem. I tell them to fuck off.
I know not everyone deals with these things the same way. Just saying.