Fuck it. I make myself happy! I buy myself nice things, I cook myself a good dinner (of course share it with my bf), I pamper myself too.
Sure it would be nice if my bf would do some things but I’m not in the business of…
Gimme gimme gimmie!
But there’s a bad side of this too. You run the risk of making yourself happy to the point you forget about others. It’s a happy balance you want to maintain too.