When you’re a couple that’s used to spending all your time together and suddenly that togetherness is disrupted by a situation that physically separates you, it can be tough to make that transition and get through it.
People have different needs, and different ways of coping. It can be a huge advantage to understand what your partner needs when things get tough, and naturally, people will change and grow as they spend time apart and it can be strange to reunite and find that you have to get to know this person you once knew so intimately again. To help ease some of that, here’s a very simple spread for couples in long distance relationships.
1. What you need
2. What your partner needs
3. How to stay connected over the distance.
Good luck to all the couples dealing with distance! Stay strong!
1. 4 Shells AKA 4 Cups – Rev. Referring to my relstiondhip with my boyfriend. Indicision over staying or leaving. I’ve become distant and removed from him so I need to make up my mind as it is affecting my relationship with Erik in the sense that it makes me very unhappy.
2. Trust – Erik need me to trust him. Right now I have doubts and fears about how I appear to others while having this experience. There were a couple of times he did break my trust. He’s begging me to look past it and forgive him but trust is a big issue with me. He crossed the line too much, he’s now paying the consequences.
3. The Moon – This kind of confirms #2 and provides advice to remember relationships are never perfect. What seems to be ideal at first can become a nightmare. Look at and refer to past relationships. What have you learned or what did you take from each situation? The lessons in the past can help shape the present and give hope for the future. Make positive changes in the home to uplift your spirits ie Feng Sui.
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